Women’s Invincible Tamer Dafa
To be honest, sitting serious with men to discuss serious matters. In addition to avoiding fear, the other party may be embarrassed, slamming the TV remote control, pretending to be dumb, and even hesitating to perform a “normal” performance that is about to be congested.
This is not an exaggeration. To investigate the reasons, it is not that the matter of “telling the truth” is fundamental; if it is not handled properly, life is also vulnerable.
For example, when it is crucial to burn a butt, a man will automatically avoid this “high voltage, please don’t touch it!”
But how can you make a man say nothing to you?
Although this is not as simple as you think, when you try it a lot and still take a breath to continue the long-term war, try the following strategies, saying that there is not necessarily a chance to turn things around and turn defeat into victory!
Strategy one: keep calm and calm, don’t go straight to the majority of women trying to affect each other with righteousness, but never thought it was counterproductive afterwards.
Don’t believe it?
Are you used to popping out from the start: “We really need to talk!
“Can I ask you something?”
“And so on?
Believe me, when he hears this, the man is hysterical, and the worst he can think of will all come to mind: Do you want to break up?
Or you accidentally got pregnant!
Any whimsical idea, he has a way to imagine it in a short period of time, his virtue, how can he patiently listen to your utterly lost thoughts.
Therefore, if you really need to find him, you might as well use the “roundabout” personality skills to make him treat you as a buddy.
At least, while he was scared and scared, you wouldn’t be frightened because you knew what medicine he was selling in the gourd.
Then, let the two people share the happy experience as a warm field, and then “take advantage of it” to intentionally or unintentionally bring out the “why recent life is not as usual” tone to further explore.
Of course, being aggressive can only make the atmosphere more embarrassing, and it can bring the core of the problem gradually.
Strategy 2: Be verbal, every word that comes out is the key. Do n’t ask for yourself. Any truth that touches the inner world is a little careless. Men do n’t lose their books.
Especially in the communication process, it is best to avoid using any sharp words, such as “It’s over between us”, “What do you want?”, “It’s sooner or later”, “I’ve had enough” and so on.
Don’t doubt that I didn’t know you before. After you close your mouth, please open your eyes and look carefully to see if this man has started to flex his muscles in addition to his blush and thick neck, ready to ignite the flames of war.
On the contrary, as opposed to men, it is better to take a turn and change the questioning skills.
For example, ask him “What do you think?
It ‘s better to ask “What do you think?”
If you do this, you may still get the voice out of the string; at this moment, the man is like a prey caught by hand, step by step towards the “trap” you laid.
Having said that, it was also his willingness, didn’t he?
Strategy 3: Do n’t stare wide, staring at someone like a polygraph, another woman ‘s common problem is that it ‘s so difficult for a man to be honest with you, your two watery black eyes,They stared at each other’s pupils like cats and mice.
Honestly, men are not used to it, and it is even worse.
Because in the concept of a man, look straight into his eyes, only the following situations: no one wants to provoke, or the great mother, otherwise only lawyers dare to do so.
Of course, instinctual defense can only be solved by resorting to force.
In fact, it is a good way to ask a man to tell you the truth without any imagination. If you find any opportunity, use the atmosphere of boudoir fun.
With less hostility to each other, intimate skin lovers are better able to lift their hearts off, and men are also more open-minded and talk openly.
Especially when a woman clings to a thick chest and the superiority of a big man’s psychological trouble, you must be the best person he is anxious to care for.
Such a good time and place, how can he care about you!
Usually, when he temporarily loses his “self-defense” instinct, he actually announces the moment of “care for you”.